Well personaly i think that most the time when your wealthy you are well respected because you are wealthy.Espically when you're really really wealthy most everyone respects you.I mean most the time they want your money like when you go to really nice hotels.They treat you with respect so you will pay them more money and will keep coming back.
it's better to be loved for me because i mean i would rather be loved then have someone fear me.Because i mean im a nice person i really dont want someone to fear me.That would make me feel like just hated by everyone thats not a good feeling.At least to me i mean everyone else is different so maybe they like to be feared or maybe it makes them feel better.