Many people struggle with being fatherless. It is a challenge but it allows them to be tough and dependant on themselves. Being fatherless is hard but when it comes down to it, it is better to be fatherless than to have a lousy father. If you had a lousy father, they teach you the wrong things and don't allow you to expand.
Personal pursuit is better because people will be people and want to be the best they can be and they want to be on the top. I know I want to be a "winner". Which by this happening it means that someone has to be a loser. This is personal pursuit.
Superman is more heroic. He was born with his powers therefore setting him aside from all others. His powers come form within and are natural, while on the other hand all of Batmans powers come from his gadgets. Although they are both heroic and perform good deeds for the city Superman came here and started to protect the world early off while Batman started later on in his life.
It is better to be loved. People that love you tend to be nicer and more on your side than if you are feared. When you fear someone you tend to be two-faced, you don't really respect them, they just do it to do what is in there best interest.