i think it would be better to be loved.If you are loved people will admire and respect you.if you are feared then people would give you a false sense of respect just because they are scared of you.If your loved then you would be comfortable around certain people,but if you were feared others would be nervous or shaky in your presence.When your loved more people care about your well being compared to if you were feared others wouldnt mind if you got knocked off... Side: Loved
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I think the best way to good is to be loved instead of being feared. If you are loved people will respect you and you can even have a friendship with the people. If people fear you they will not respect you. They will most likely try to stab you in the back because they are scared of you. So they will try to think of a way to take you out, because they will really see you as a ruler and controlling their lives. But if they love you they will respect you and everyone can live in peace and harmony. Side: Loved
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In the eighteen years in my life, Ive always thought you are more respected if you are feared then loved. If you are feared people will show you respect because they are afraid of the consequences. I perfect example of this is in medieval times if someone where to question the king he would be put to death, but when the king was nice to his peasants he was looked upon as a person that could be walked on, so people didn't respect his authority as much. Side: Feared
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