I think both being fatherless and having lousy father is depressing. But for me i will prefer to be fatherless, because at least you know that being fatherless is a good reason for a father not to be around. It would hurt me the most if i had a lousy father and not to care about me. In this case i am in the middle of this two choices, that is because i have a father but he is not here in this country, i understand him because he left back to our country for a great reason. But i still need him here to support me.
I dont know what this really means but am starting to understanding. for some people freedom is like having everythieng an goign everywhere they want. Other people are happy even if their parents dont let them go out. everyone makes their own freedom.