I agree love is weakness. When your a loveable guy it kind of looks fruity in a guy. No offense! i just perfer being feared, people that are fear may not have many friends but the ones they have are worth keeping!

Fear is another form of respect. If your feared by people you get more respect then others. But then agian what about love? We want to be loved to but also respected!

I would have to say that its better to be feared than loved. If people fear you then they wont mess with you. In my point of view love is pain, you may love someone with all you heart and then later on they throw it way. If your feard they wont even want to get near you and you wont get hurt.